Here is some food for thought: What would you prefer: staying single or being in an unhealthy relationship just for the sake of being in one?
Needless to say, being in your own company is far better than being with someone who makes your life miserable. Spending some quality time by yourself is more valuable than spending time with a toxic person.
Being in a relationship shouldn’t by any means require you to become an emotional prisoner. Therefore, the best thing you can do for yourself is to learn how to love yourself and enjoy your own company! It is far more important to invest in yourself and in your future than to waste your time and energy on someone who doesn’t appreciate you and your efforts.
It is much better to stay single than to lose yourself for the sake of a relationship!
Stop for a second and picture this…. You have messaged your partner explaining them how you feel about them and your relationship. The answer: ‘seen.’ How does this make you feel? Probably unappreciated and worthless. Wouldn’t it be better if you hadn’t someone to send these messages to? Wouldn’t it be better to spend the night reading a great book or watching a nice movie?
Unfortunately, many people aren’t aware of the difference between partnership and ownership. And, this is one of the reasons many relationships quickly end. If a person has enough respect for themselves, they wouldn’t let anyone treat them differently than that!
After all, why would you be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t let you go out with your friends or coworkers? But, they do go out frequently and drunk-text you!
Spending quality time with your friends is much better than staying home and feeling miserable just because your partner decided to go out without you. Especially if the same partner is being unfaithful, but expects you to be fine with that and stay loyal to the end.
Stay single until you find the person who is trustworthy and respects you instead of being in a relationship with a toxic person!
Working on yourself and investing in your future is far more important than wasting your time on someone who isn’t supportive at all. Pursuing your goals is better than chasing someone who doesn’t deserve you, isn’t it?
Building your happiness on your own is better than being with a person who makes you feel miserable. Love is supposed to set you free, not to limit your opportunities.
Stay single until you find this special someone, and don’t settle for anything less!
Stay single until you find the person who will show you what true love means! Because being single is better than being with a person who mistreats you and makes you feel useless.
You deserve to be loved, appreciated, and cared for! And, this is the reason why you shouldn’t waste your time with the wrong people.