Let`s face it! This is something that anyone will experience at certain point! Trying hard and loving so hard… without getting any love in return.
You have given people countless chances as you have always seen love as the only thing that is capable of giving you the strength and courage to continue… True love was the reason you live. And it still is!
Unfortunately, here is the defeating reality…
No matter how hard you try, for some people, you will never be good enough.
You give your heart, offer yourself and your soul, shower them with affection, but nothing you do will satisfy them.
You may offer everything you have on a plate, and they will, without any gratitude, ask for more.
You need to understand that whatever you do, it will NOT be enough for these people.
You will never be good enough for a person who simply isn’t ready to love. No matter how much love you offer, someone who isn’t able to love will never appreciate yours.
You will never be good enough for a person who doesn’t feel the need to make it work between you two. You will never be good enough for a person who doesn’t choose you and doesn’t want to love you, but only to control your mind and possess your body. Simply put, you will never be enough for someone who doesn’t have the same intentions as you do.
The faster you accept this reality, the better off you will be.
So, accept the truth! Come to terms with reality. No matter what you do, no matter how much love you have to offer, you will never be good enough for some people.
You will never be good enough for people who unable to see your true self, and those who pretend to be your friends. You will never be enough for people who are not mature enough, and people who weren’t meant to be part of your life.
And that`s okay. You shouldn’t wish to change this.
This is the only way you will acknowledge that you may have chosen the wrong path. That you are spending time, love, and energy on people who don’t deserve you. You must understand that not everyone you meet will stay in your life. And that maybe you are still searching in the wrong place.