I Don’t Want A Prince Charming Who Claims He Can Solve My Problems, I Want A Lover Who Won’t Ever Become A Problem.

We are able to deal with anything that life throws at us and can achieve absolutely anything we set our minds to.

Women need men in order to have a happy family, and happy life in general.  Do they? Well, at least this is what we have been all taught from a young age.

This is an absurd belief though! Women don’t need a man to make their life easier because they are fully capable of living an easy-going life without a man. The society seems to mould us into believing that we are capable of much less than we are actually able to do and achieve.

As women, it is very important to understand that we don’t need anything to be happy except for a strong belief in ourselves.  We are able to deal with anything that life throws at us and can achieve absolutely anything we set our minds to.

There are so many single mothers out there who live perfectly fine without a man in their life.  There are so many single women who own their own business.  There are so many single women who fought in wars.

As women, it is very important to understand that we don’t need a man, but we can have one if we wanted to.  When we were born, we were given three birthrights: one, being independence, two, being strength and three, being life. We are able to be successful and independent without any help, we have the strength of all the women who came before us and most importantly we are able to create and birth life!

Another crucial thing to consider is that just because you are able to live a happy life without a man by your side doesn’t mean you need to. You have a choice.  Having a choice is what makes life so beautiful.

For instance, you may choose to be the best independent businesswoman and still have a man in your life to share special moments with. What`s the catch? Well, the trick is to not let them or the relationship to change you.  When in a new relationship, many women tend to forget their independence because it is nice to have someone to do nice things for you.

Relationships are supposed to help you grow and improve as a person. They are supposed to help you enrich life and breathe it into parts of your being you never knew existed. If you start a relationship without little or no knowledge of how to be independent, you can easily become codependent.  And, this is what society has led us believe is normal.

The truth is that we don’t need a prince on a white horse to solve our problems because we are perfectly able to solve them ourselves, and we especially don’t need a man who will eventually become a problem.