The lives of people are often compared to the norm, so much so, that many people end up being ashamed of the way they live their life. You need to understand that you shouldn’t be ashamed of your life, how you live it, or who you live it with. Below are 12 things you should no longer be ashamed of:
Taking care for self-care
In this modern world, it is very easy to get lost in puzzle of doing things for others, spending plenty of time making sure everyone is taken care of. This is why self-care is very important! It comes in many forms, so choose whatever makes you happy, whether it is treating yourself with your favorite meal, getting a massage, or booking a vacay.
Showing or expressing your emotion
Feeling angry? Feeling nervous? Feeling sad? Whatever you are feeling, don’t be ashamed of showing it. People who use cognitive energy to understand their feelings become much better at managing their emotions. Consequently, they are less prone to negative moods.
Doing your best
Living a happy and fulfilling life takes a great effort and plenty of both time and energy. Everyone who strives to do their best should be revered, so there is absolutely no reason for being ashamed of doing your best.
Your eating habits
People can be quite sensitive when it comes to their food. Some people swear by their diets while others jump from one to another to find the one that works the best for them. Whether you enjoy animal protein or are a vegetarian/vegan, don’t be ashamed of it! Listen to your body and eat the foods your body needs and asks for!
Your natural self
There are countless beauty standards forced on women, such as small Japanese feet, the arms of Michelle Obama, full Spanish lips, Caucasian blue eyes, and more. Both men and women are subjected to these social standards, and often feel ashamed of their appearance, based on other people`s opinion. Don’t pay attention to them and embrace your natural state instead.
There are many obstacles along the road of life. What matters here is that you don’t let these bumps into mountains. Learn from your past mistakes and look at them as a positive experience!
Being true to yourself
It is common for people to get wrapped up in the expectations others have for them, forgetting about their own needs. It is very important to embrace your unique self, love it, and ignore other people`s opinion about you. It is your life at the end of the day… it is now or never!
There will be good days and bad days, but this doesn’t mean that you should let life kick you while you are down. Try to stay as positive as you can, as positive thinking during bad moments will make you more resilient in the future.
A person is made happy by three things: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for. Dreamers are often criticized and recommended to stop dreaming and be more realistic. However, hopeful thinking even has great health benefits, such as lower stress levels, improved coping skills, and increased life span.
Holding grudges is bad for both your health and social/ love life. Never be ashamed to forgive anyone, as the act of forgiving is important to let go and move forward in life.
What you do for work
We live in a society that is obsessed with what you do for living, so following your career aspirations may seem difficult. Why? Because it is very easy to get discouraged when you are bombarded with attacks regarding your choice of career. Don’t give these attacks attention but work towards your goals instead.
Who you spend your time with
Remember that you get to decide who you spend your time with and no one else! Whether it is a friend or a romantic partner and regardless of their age, religion, or career, stick to them without feeling ashamed of your choice. Proudly spend your time with the ones that positively affect you and your well-being.